Why Do We Choose Wrong Partner?: Have you seen the film ‘Kabir Singh’? Kabir’s anger, his overpowering nature or rather his possessiveness, all this was clearly visible to Preeti. But still Preeti liked being in that relationship. This was a film, made for entertainment. But have you noticed, you will see many such relationships among your friends or around you, on seeing which you can easily say, ‘What did he see in this? Or why is he with a girl/boy like this? Have you ever wondered why two people are not able to understand what is visible to you from outside, even after being in that relationship? In olden times, it was often said about such relationships, ‘There are stones lying on his intellect…’ To a large extent, this is also true. Actually, all this is related to your intelligence or rather your brain also. let us know Mumbai’s famous psychiatrist and sexual health expert Dr. Sagar Mundra From about it.
We only look for childhood things in relationships
Dr. Sagar Mundra says that you should understand this as if you have seen only horror films in childhood. Now you grow up and you come to know that there are action, romantic, comedy and drama films among the films. But because you have seen only horror films since childhood and your mind is more familiar with such films, then even after growing up, you will be drawn towards similar films. This happens in our relationships too. Similarly, if in childhood you felt ignored in your relationships, you were not given time, your feelings were not given importance, then gradually you become familiar with it.
Your past relationships decide how you will maintain future relationships.
The brain chooses the familiar, not the right.
Even if you get a mature or caring partner when you grow up, you still behave in the same way. Because your brain is familiar with such things. The kind of relationships you see around you in childhood, later on you also develop the same kind of relationships because your brain considers them as your own. In such a situation, anyone looking from outside can tell that you are in a wrong relationship, but still we remain in the same kind of relationship. Actually, if we talk about the brain, remember that the human brain is always attracted towards those things which seem familiar to it and not towards those which are right for it.
Dr. Sagar Mundhra explains that this is why it is said that children have a very soft mind, it is very important for them to get the right environment. Because these things will later make his personality.
Tags: Kabir Singh Movie, Mental Health Awareness
FIRST PUBLISHED : April 8, 2024, 11:28 IST
