Social media has interfered in everyone’s life. It is social media which is bringing the personal life of YouTuber Gaurav Taneja and his wife Ritu Rathi to the public, making the news of divorce of Aishwarya Rai Bachchan and Abhishek Bachchan viral and making Deepika Padukone and Ranveer Singh perfect parents. Giving praise for it. No one knows what is really happening in someone’s life, but the life of couples is being greatly affected by this social media. This platform is creating distance between couples because most of the couples mistake this virtual world for reality.
How social media changes thinking
Social media has enslaved the mind. The brain is now working less than before because technology has taken over its work. This has affected the ability of the brain to work. At the same time, social media has also affected the ability to think and understand. Nowadays, so many reels and news about cheating are going viral on social media that somewhere or the other couples start wondering whether their partner is cheating on them. This doubt can end their relationship forever.
Cheating increased due to social media!
Nowadays, people find partners very easily on social media, it just takes time to send a friend request. Nowadays many types of dating apps are also running on which many married people are creating accounts and making hookup and dating plans. Because of this, cases of cheating among couples have also increased. In such a situation, if the partner reads their chats or watches their social media history by installing a tracker on their mobile, then a dispute is sure to happen.
Most people use Facebook in India (Image-Canva)
Fight over not liking the post
The world of social media is a world of likes, comments and shares. Founder of DGS Counseling Solutions, Gurugram and Relationship Counselor Dr. Geetanjali Sharma She says that many husbands and wives fight with each other just because they liked other people’s posts and made heart emojis on them but did not like each other’s posts. This affair of likes starts becoming a cause of bitterness between them.
Want to look like a perfect couple
Dr. Gitanjali Sharma According to this, many people want to show the image of their happy perfect couple on social media. Whereas in real life both of them do not have a good understanding of each other. Often the husband complains about this because his wife wants to post every photo of herself with her husband, whereas at home she does not even talk to him properly. In such a situation, it often comes to the husband’s mind that the problems between us are not going away and she is showing off in the society.
Don’t compare your relationship with others
Many people start comparing their relationships just by seeing the social media posts of others. No one’s relationship is perfect. If a couple is posting photos with expensive restaurants, diamond rings or expensive cars, then it is not necessary that all that is reality. Never compare your relationship and your partner with anyone. Due to this, your partner’s ego may also get hurt.
Girls show off more about their relationships on social media (Image-Canva)
Can become victim of trolling
Not only actors and actresses but even common couples become victims of trolling on social media. When many couples post photos together, some people write such comments which hardly anyone likes. Some people start giving their judgment just by looking at the photo like whether the partner is fat or dark, he/she is not suitable for you, both do not look good together. Such negative comments not only disturb the mind but also make the person feel inferior. To avoid facing these stinging comments, it is better not to read the comments or not post the photo.
be honest with your partner
relationship counselor Dr. Gitanjali Sharma She says that if the public gets involved in the relationship between two people, then it will have an impact on the relationship in some way or the other. Social media is the need of today because many office works are done on it, hence it is not possible to stay away from it. To ensure that this does not affect relationships, couples should talk to each other instead of spending time on the phone at home. Minimize mobile use on holidays. Couples should understand that virtual life is not reality. Give time to your family and friends and most importantly, couples should be honest with each other. If you remain honest, you will not need to hide anything.
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FIRST PUBLISHED : October 3, 2024, 07:33 IST
