Every parent dreams that their child gets married at the right age and gets settled in life. For this, they start looking for a relationship for their children from the time their graduation is completed. A sacred bond like marriage brings parents under pressure from society because everyone asks the same question when their son or daughter grows up, when will the child get married? When this question puts pressure on parents, they put pressure on their children for marriage. This is the thinking in most countries of Asia including India. In such a situation, the trend of taking partners on rent starts increasing among the youth of Vietnam. Youth aged between 25 to 35 years have started looking for partners on rent. This culture has slowly started in India also. In the last few years, apart from the rented partner, Indian youth also hire a boyfriend on rent on Valentine’s Day.
Rent partner meets parents
South China Morning Post According to this, even before parents put pressure on them for marriage, young people search for people on websites, dating apps or social media who can become their partners by taking some money. The youth do all this for the happiness and respect of their families. He introduces the hired partner to his parents, friends and neighbors so that no one knows that he is single. By doing this, the pressure of marriage goes away and parents also take a sigh of relief that their child has found a partner and will also get married. Youngsters like to introduce their rented partners to family functions, get togethers or any events so that they can be noticed by most of the people including their parents.
Emotions are not like relationships
There is a romance in a relationship, there are emotions between two people but there is no phone conversation, no sharing of things, no emotional-physical connection and no bond with the rented partner. This is just a service. In this, payment is given according to certain hours.
If the secret of the rented partner is revealed then the parents lose trust in the child (Image-Canva)
As per demand, so partner
Nowadays, there are many groups active on social media which are offering partners on rent. Many websites are also running for this service. The partner is provided as per the demand of the client. If someone wants a fresh partner then its price starts from around 40 dollars per hour (about 3 thousand rupees) and the rate of regular partner starts from 48 dollars per hour (about 4 thousand rupees). It is also clearly written in some advertisements that there will be no kiss or hug at this rate. The client will have to provide food, clothes, fare to reach the location or tickets to that event to the rental partner himself.
Rent partner is given training
While people can find a rental partner through the website, they can also register themselves to become a rental partner. Before becoming a partner for rent, a person is given training. They are groomed as well-mannered son-in-law or daughter-in-law. Since there is a high demand among girls for hired partners, boys are taught in training how to please the client’s mother through cooking or household chores. How to talk to elders. How should their body posture be, how should they live up to the expectations of their parents, how should they get along with them.
Taking a partner on rent is not valid in the eyes of law (Image-Canva)
Focus on career, not marriage
psychiatrist Muskaan Yadav She says that today’s youth are afraid of commitment. They do not want to promise to spend their life with anyone and the biggest reason for this is their career. Today’s generation wants to earn money and progress in their career. At the same time, he feels free without a partner. Apart from this, nowadays due to social media and dating apps, youth have many options for relationships due to which they do not get serious with any person. They date but not for long.
Girls should choose such a partner carefully
Choosing a rented partner is playing with the emotions of the parents. In fact, parents want to see their children managing their families like in their times. He wants his children to get married and spend time with his grandchildren. But today’s generation does not think like this. This trend is especially dangerous for girls. Most of the girls can become victims of blackmail by doing this. Often the girls who take a partner on rent make the mistake of telling everything about their family, in such a situation they do not know how trustworthy the other person is. Give only as much information as is necessary to the rental partner. Never share your personal phone number or home address with such a person. One should not get emotional with them because the hired partner is a professional.
Tags: China, Relationship, Rishton Ki Party, Social media, South asia, Young couples
FIRST PUBLISHED : December 14, 2024, 5:38 PM IST
